IN MY LIFE
There are places I'll remember
All my life, though some have changed
Some forever, not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life, I've loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life, I love you more
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life, I love you more
In my life-- I love you more
Songwriters: John Lennon / Paul McCartney
In My Life lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
THIS is a tribute
to perennial friends that went ahead of us into the unknown. Friends who touched
my life in so many special ways. Musicians and a writer -- all of them
have a special niche in my heart.
Menchu
Apostol -- Chumen as we fondly called him -- was a
gifted guitar player who died early in his prime. I met him thru saxophonist
Rey Ama (a schoolmate of mine at the UP College of Music). I best remember Chumen as a very humble person.
I invited their
band in the late 70's to practice in Capitol Homes in QC where my immediate fam
used to reside since my beat-up amps, guitars and drums were all gathering
dust. "Dust in the Wind" by Kansas ang peg. I had no band back then,
you see.
Fast forward… They
called their band Group & Gang and they carved a name for themselves in Olongapo.
"Ric, yung isang banda dun...nakatsinelas lang pero Yes ang
tugtugan," kwento ng bahistang si Ike Liongson. "Araw-araw nga eh piyesta.
Ganun kasaya ang scene dun," added Rey (flutist/keyboards). Later on, Resty
Fabunan of Maria Cafra got Menchu to play in their all-original Jem debut album.
Menchu had a cutting
edge sense of hearing. He could easily detect sloppy guitar and out-of-sync drum
playing. He was truly a band leader
through and through. I can attest to this because I was fortunate enough to be
invited to join them in one of their gigs.
Fast forward…
Menchu became an in-demand sessionist and musical arranger but has remained
humble as ever. I vividly remember seeking him out because our musical director
in JINGLE opted for greener pastures.
Chumen gladly obliged and, soon
after, when someone came along to take over full-time, he didn't even bother to
claim his TF. I returned the favor by giving him 3 jazz albums when I visited
him at Birds of the Same Feather where I used to chill by listening to good
music with a few bottles of ice-cold San Miguel beer. Nothing more, nothing
less -- just the best. Chumen was with
Sticky back then playing cool jazz.
Pare, kita-kita
na lang tayo "dyan" when the time comes. Jam uli tayo. Tugtugan mo
ako ng gitarang iba ang hugis at tunog…
Boy
Royo was the
quintessential rock star in every sense of the word. He acted and looked like
one. He walked the talk, 'ika nga. Boy and his kumpadre Lollie Florencio(+)
joined JINGLE's music department when
we already had about five or six chapters out in the market. Both also lived in
San Juan.
Kuya Gilbert told
us to form a group for he would be producing Triple H (Hot na Hot Happening) --
a three-night rock concert in Meralco Theater. He called us Jingle Clan
comprised of the music department guys: Ogie Tupaz (guitar/vocals), Ricky Gruet
(guitar/vocals) -- who eventually became a licensed doctor, Lollie Florencio
(lead guitar/vocals), yours truly (ahem)
(lead vocals) and Boy Royo (lead vocals). Puro mga batang San Juan yan.
CSNY songs were
our bread and butter. "Suite: Judy Blue Eyes" was our fave warm-up
practice song then. "Ipokree, ahlalala gumamela...Yonosoy, oorder na ng lasagna..."
Wala yatang ganung food pa noon. Hehehe.
Boy specialized
in Neil Young songs. Paborito niya eh. "Tell Me Why" na pang-harmony.
Emil Davocol (chief artist) who also
passed away, Dan Tagbo (artist), Ogie, Boy and Lollie were all pirated by DJ
Danee Samonte from us. They put up Burgis
(BM in later issues) which was bankrolled by Mareco-Villar, a record
company that also owned and operated DZBM -- a pop/RnB AM radio station.
We struggled
shitless back then. We were like injured dogs with broken limbs. Napilay kami
talaga.
My friendship
with Boy and Lollie was never compromised after all the brouhaha. I still
visited them in San Juan whenever I could for they were my drinking buddies.
Jam ng konti. Pitik-pitik ng toma, ayos na. Those were happy days indeed.
Lollie always
admonished me then, "Ric, kami eh pabalik na... ikaw papunta pa lang... wag
mo na kaming gayahin."
Cheers to you
then, Boy and Lollie! Jam uli tayo dyan… pag nagkita-kita.